Ban on fathers walking brides down the aisle?

A proposal in the run-up to the autumn meeting of the Swedish Church has caused a commotion: members of the Church have called for the tradition of the father leading the bride down the aisle to be banned on the grounds that it stems from a patriarchal system which is no longer in keeping with modern society. Commentators say the issue raises legitimate questions, but call for balanced responses.

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Kristeligt Dagblad (DK) /

No to bans but yes to change

Kristeligt Dagblad is against a ban but welcomes the discussion:

“Yes, the Swedes are on the wrong track with their proposed ban, and such a ban is out of place on Danish soil. But that doesn't mean you can't take a more nuanced view of a beloved tradition that a surprising number of modern, egalitarian, secular and religious Danes still value, and remember that it's perfectly fine if the main roles at a wedding aren't played by just one woman alongside four men. So no to bans, but thanks for the input from 'beyond'.”

Göteborgs-Posten (SE) /

True pluralism also allows for conservatism

Göteborgs-Posten sees the proposal as typical of the prevailing wokism:

“This whole debacle is symptomatic of the pseudo-pluralism of our time. Diversity is all very well as long as it is a diversity of progressive and norm-critical phenomena and approaches. Conservative connotations, on the other hand, are automatically seen as ugly and dangerous. According to this [pseudo-pluralist] view, the broad popular church should only be broad in one direction.”